What if “I’m just not a creative person” is the biggest lie you’ve ever told yourself?

Let’s be honest: that “practical” persona you’ve been wearing like a badge of honor? It’s not just killing your joy, it’s quietly draining your creative energy, flattening your ingenuity, and leaving your business stranded in the “meh” zone.

So, why keep booking roundtrips to Resentmentville when you could be living it up on your own private creative oasis?

The truth is creativity isn’t a luxury reserved for eccentric geniuses or the lucky few. It’s the lifeblood of your health, happiness, and entrepreneurial edge. 

Deny it, and you risk burnout, blandness, and a business that’s as forgettable as last year’s viral meme.

This week, I’m handing you the boarding pass to creative renewal. 

In this week’s letter, you’ll discover how to:

  • Craft a self-care plan that actually fits your wiring so you can recharge without guilt (and never confuse procrastination for “creative incubation” again).

  • Ditch the “martyr” script and claim your birthright as a creative trickster using strategic rebellion to outsmart self-doubt and keep your best ideas flowing.

  • Dream up and launch a “Purple Cow” digital product so your offer stands out in a sea of sameness, with zero need for endless guerrilla marketing.

Ready to trade practical for powerful? Let’s get started.

HEALTH – How to Prioritize Self-Care When You’re on a Budget and Burned Out

If your self-care routine consists of you “Netflix and chilling”, it's probably time to make some changes.

You know you’re running on fumes, but between deadlines and adulting, actual rest feels as achievable as teleportation. 

Here’s the truth: Self-care isn’t about adding more to your plate, it’s about creatively repurposing what’s already on it.

Here’s a step-by-step guide on what I mean and how to do it.

Step 1: Decode Your Body’s Secret Language

Your body isn’t subtle. It’s been sending you Morse code via headaches and 3 AM doomscrolls. 

But instead of waiting for a full-system meltdown, let’s play detective:

The “Body Whisper” Challenge

  • Track your daily energy peaks like a stock market chart. Notice when you crash (1 PM? 3 PM?). That’s your body screaming, “I need fuel, not another espresso!”

  • Journal with emojis: For three days, log quick notes:
    🧠 Foggy after Zoom marathon → Need some sunlight?”
    🤬 Road rage at traffic light → Need 5 mins of scream-singing to your favorite up-tempo artist?”

Creativity Tip: Use your camera roll for clues. After seeing that photo of your limp salad lunch…Is your body whispering, “Feed me something that didn’t come from a drive-thru bag.”

Step 2: Build a “Stealth Care” Routine That Fits Your Budget

Let’s forget about pricey retreats for the moment (although I’m not against them by any stretch of the imagination).

Sustainable self-care happens in the cracks of your chaos. 

Here’s how to seamlessly add it into your day:

The $0 Spa Experience

Shower = Therapy Session: Turn your 7-minute rinse into a sensory reset.

  • Hot water → Muscle tension relief

  • Singing → Vagus nerve activation which helps to reduce stress

  • Grocery list brainstorming → Multitasking without losing efficiency

DIY Desk Yoga:

  • Wrist circles while waiting for emails to load

  • Seated forward folds after Zoom calls

The “Micro-Moments” Method

5-4-3-2-1 Grounding: When overwhelmed, name…
5 things you see → 4 textures you feel → 3 sounds you hear → 2 smells → take 1 deep breath

Podcast Walks: Loop your block while listening to literally anything that isn’t work-related.

Budget-Friendly Upgrades

Swap the $7 latte for a DIY golden milk (turmeric + almond milk + honey). Your liver will thank you.

Repurpose old socks. Fill one with rice, microwave it for 90 seconds and voila, an instant heating pad for tense shoulders (or you could just buy a reusable heating pad).

Curating Your Self-Care Routine

  1. Conduct a “Body Audit”: Spend 60 seconds before bed asking: “What part of me feels most neglected today?” (No judgment, just data.)

  1. Hijack a Habit: Pair self-care with something you already do:

    • Brushing your teeth → 2-minute gratitude list

    • Waiting for your coffee to brew → get some sunlight

  1. Text a Micro-Community Ally: “I’m doing a 10-minute meditation session at noon, wanna join remotely?” (Wondering what a micro-community ally is? Click here to find out.)

PSYCHOLOGY – The Trickster’s Gambit: Why Suffering for Your Art is Overrated

Let’s start with a harsh truth…Your “creative struggle” isn’t noble, it’s a scam. 

Society sold you a lie that great art requires martyrdom; that you must bleed on the page, starve in a garret, or cry into your third espresso to prove you’re a real creator. 

The unfortunate truth is Van Gogh died penniless and Sylvia Plath stuck her head in an oven. Suffering doesn’t make you creative, it just makes you dead (sooner rather than later).

Elizabeth Gilbert’s Big Magic is a manifesto for outsmarting the martyr complex and embracing your inner trickster. Here’s how you can play the creativity game and actually enjoy it.

The Martyr’s Dead End

Martyrdom is creativity’s toxic ex. It whispers:

  • “You’re not a real creator unless you’re miserable.”

  • “If it doesn’t hurt, it’s not worth doing.”

  • “Nobody will care unless you sacrifice everything.”

Spoiler alert…Martyrs end up as losers. They burn out, resent their work, and end up forgotten not because their work wasn’t good, but because nobody cares how much you suffered. The world rewards results, not relics.

The Trickster’s Playbook

Tricksters don’t fight the system, they gamify it. Liz gives a nod to her friend the radio personality Caroline Casey who said: “Better a trickster than a martyr be.” 

Here’s your three-step framework for outwitting creative angst.

Step 1: Trick Yourself First

Society conditioned you to believe creativity is a rare gift for the chosen few. That’s boiled baloney! (Side note, baloney sucks! Argue with a dietician.) 

You’ve been creative since birth. You just need to be reminded of that fact.

Start introducing yourself as the creator you already are. You deny yourself the title because you don’t yet have the tangible success you feel society requires. And you’ll never have the success if you won’t even give yourself permission to exist in that space in the first place. So, try this on for size:

  • “I’m a writer” (even if the only thing you’ve written is a book report in the 4th grade).

  • “I’m a filmmaker” (even if your “set” only consists of your iPhone and a lamp).

  • I’m a [insert whatever kind of creator you are].

Liz’s Rule: “Proclaim your creativity loudly, then let reality catch up.”

Creativity Tip: Write your artist bio today for the self you’ll be in five years.

Step 2: Embrace the “Nobody Cares” Doctrine

Your fear of judgment is just evolution’s outdated processing system. 

We’re hardwired to fear ostracism, but in 2025 getting “canceled” just means temporary free publicity.

People’s attention spans are shorter than a TikTok dance trend, so post that weird painting and share that vulnerable essay. 

The embarrassment you fear? It’ll be buried under cat videos by lunch. 

But on the flip side, a viral 15 minutes of fame moment might just be the spark you need even though you’re doing your best to hide from it.

Liz says it best: “Your job is to create, not control how it’s received.”

Step 3: Gamify the Creative Process

Tricksters treat creativity like a game, not a gladiator arena. You’re not in a competitive fight to the death with other creators. 

Your only goal is to allow room for inspiration. Once it shows up, you use it to articulate your own unique perspective on any topic you choose.

Because, after all, originality is a myth. “All ideas are secondhand, consciously or unconsciously.” says Liz. There’s no need to stew in guilt over “repurposing” someone else’s content because they probably did the same. It feels original because their perspective (as well as your own) always is.

Why This Works

Martyrs are rigid but tricksters are fluid. When you treat creativity as play…

  • Anxiety fades: No stakes = no pressure.

  • Output soars: Fun is sustainable; suffering isn’t.

  • Opportunities multiply: People flock to joy, not angst.

I’ll leave you with this final quote from Ms. Gilbert and it goes like this: “The universe buries jewels in us, then watches to see if we’ll dig.”    

BUSINESS – The Purple Cow Playbook: How to Build a Digital Product That’s Impossible to Ignore

Do you have a digital course that you’ve been banging your head against the wall trying to figure out how to sell?

Your digital course isn’t selling because it’s another “meh” brown cow in a field of identical brown cows. Your course isn’t bad, it’s just boring. 

Allow me to introduce (or reintroduce) you to Seth Godin’s Purple Cow: the art of being so remarkable people can’t help but point and scream, “Did you see that?!”

Let’s dive into how you can turn your course from a snooze-fest to a must-have using the example of an AI content marketing course.

What the Heck is a Purple Cow?

Imagine driving past endless fields of identical brown cows. Now picture one purple cow. That’s your course.

Seth Godin’s core idea is simple…Safe is risky. 

In a world where 7,000 courses launch daily, blending in = zero sales. 

Your only shot is to create something so creatively fascinating, it practically sells itself.

Here are a couple of real-world examples:

  • Apple’s first iPhone (a phone + iPod + internet) blew minds in 2007.

  • Dollar Shave Club’s $1 razors (and that viral video roasting Gillette) had the beard gang bros spreading the word.

Can you see now what your goal should be? 

Make your course the iPhone of the content marketing space.

The 3 Ingredients of a Purple Cow Course

Radical Specificity

Forget “AI for marketers.” That’s brown cow territory. 

Go hyper-niche: “AI-Powered LinkedIn Ghostwriting for B2B SaaS Founders Who Hate Writing”

Why it works:

  • It targets a micro-audience starving for a specific solution.

  • It makes you the only option because the course feels tailor-made for one specific avatar.

Polarizing Value

Purple cows aren’t for everyone, they’re for the obsessed

Godin says: “If no one’s offended, you’re not remarkable enough.”


Here’s an example of this: “Forgetabout ‘authentic content’. My AI framework helps you clone the writing style of top-performing CEOs (ethically, of course).” 

Why it works:

  • It hits a trigger point for people trying to be authentic at the expense of efficiency.

  • It piques the interest of those obsessed with gaining that competitive edge with AI.

Built-In Virality

Design your course to force sharing:

  • Students get bonus templates for tagging friends.

  • Create a public leaderboard of top AI-generated posts.

  • Host “AI Content Roast” live sessions where students submit posts for AI-powered drags (which helps them improve their prompting skills).

How to Build Your AI Content Marketing Purple Cow

Let’s say you’re creating a course called “ChatGPT to Cashflow: The AI Content Blueprint for Ghostwriters”.

Step 1: Niching Down & Laser Focus Your Marketing

  • Brown Cow: “AI for writers”

  • Purple Cow: “Turn AI into your 24/7 ghostwriting sidekick (without clients noticing)”

Step 2: Embed “Remarkability” in Every Module

  • 1st Module: “How to train AI so well you can make it sound like your client’s ex’s texts” (Controversial? Yes. Shareable? Hell yes.)

  • 2nd Module: “The Dark Arts: Using AI to resurrect dead brands’ content styles”

Step 3: Turn Students into Evangelists

  • The “AI Content Swap”: Students trade AI-generated posts and vote on the best. The winners get featured on your LinkedIn.

  • “Steal My Client” Pipeline: Top students get listed in a directory for your email list

Your Homework

  1. Run the “So What?” Test: For every course feature, ask: “Would a student screenshot this and/or post it?” If not, scrap it.

  1. Hijack a Trend: Find a rising AI fear (“Will ChatGPT steal my job?”) and position your course as the antidote.

  1. Build a “Trojan Horse” Lead Magnet: Offer “3 Forbidden AI Prompts Ghostwriters Keep Secret” (gate it behind an email opt-in). For details on how to do this, click here.

Remember: Purple cows aren’t born, they’re engineered. Your course isn’t just a product; it’s a conversation starter (preferably with your ideal client 😉). 

Now go make something worth arguing about!

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Stay Masterful,
Caroline

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